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If not people could just steal, murder without consequences. So I am at conflict with this message. Are there times when it is ok to judge? And how do you decide?
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Some people would lead happier lives if they DID change…for themselves and others. Just something to think about. As a recovering Approval Seeker…I think all your points are valid.
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While your advice is solid, many people are not just going to wake up one day and read something positive then change their lives to stop seeking approval. It truly takes focused, patient work to turn from the patterned ways of Approval Addiction.
Miranda, one step at a time. Imagine yourself as the person you want to be, feel the feelings that come from doing that and start acting as if what you want to happen soil did.
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